Ah ha Moment

Do you ever feel like one day you just got it? It...all the things that when you look back in hindsight it just made sense and became so clear? I seem to be having those moments daily - while I'm cooking, staring at the walls, or driving on the road. Sometimes I feel like these moments are simply Yahweh telling me what he needs me to see in order to get past the tough emotional times.

Last night I talked to an old friend about her marriage and how she feels its a struggle sometimes because shes juggling so much. I amazed myself at how wise I sounded as I gave her tips on how to keep it fresh. I mean, who am I tell to give marital advice?! But then I realized that I am capable - I have experienced many ebbs and flows in marriage and I am like her elder in this scenario since she is still new to it. Any advice that I can give from my experience can help her maintain a healthy one, so I advised right on. Marriage is a beautiful thing when done right. One should never shy away from it. Its never perfect or matter of fact, but you both have to work at it, support one another, and LISTEN to the signs. Don't let that Ah ha moment pass you by.